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Archive for August, 2011


Does a man respect a woman who gave it up too soon?

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I know it is the new millennium and women are more in touch with our sexuality. But I am curious to know how men really think about a woman giving it up soon after they meet? Can giving it up too soon result in a failed relationship? Would you respect her? Would you want to form a serious relationship with her? Or do you look at her as easy ass?

How long should a woman wait before having sex with a man she’s dating?

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My friends and I have discussed this topic on many occasions. For a long time, I have heard many women say that they would never give up the goods on the first date. They abided to the three month rule. They would have to get to know the man and go out on several dates before engaging in intimacy. Presently, I know of many women who have changed their earlier views of waiting. Read the rest of this entry »

Why do men cheat when they have a good woman?

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This question comes up a lot with my girlfriends. We find it so hard to understand why men cheat when they have a good woman. A woman can have the total package. She can be pretty, smart, career-minded, own a home and have a great personality. Yet, a man will still go out and cheat with a woman that may not have nearly half of those qualities. What is up with that? I want the men and women to sound off and express your comments on this prevalent issue. Maybe some men can shed some light on this issue.

Is a Man with Children a Deal Breaker?

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Women, are children a deal breaker for you? If not, do you have a cap on the number of children? Is it different, when both parties have children of their own?

Can a Man Really Forgive A Woman After Cheating?

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A male friend discovered through a mutual friend that his girlfriend was dating another man. Although he tried to work on the relationship, he wasn’t able to trust her.  Eventually the relationship ended. Women often learn to forgive and stay with a man that cheats. Can a man truly forgive a woman after finding that she has cheated?