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Archive for December, 2011


What Is Most Important To You in Finding a Boyfriend/ Girlfriend?

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When I pose this question to my friends, I am sometimes surprised to hear the responses.  Women, tend to say personality because they do not want to appear shallow. And men tend to say looks because they are known to be visual.  Are we right or wrong? What is most important to You? 

  1. Personality
  2. Occupation
  3. Spirituality
  4. Looks
  5. Sex
  6. Income
  7. Relationship With Family

Moving In Together…Good or Bad

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What are your thoughts about shacking up before marriage? If marriage is on your mind, can co-habitating hinder your chances at getting a ring? You know the old saying, ‘Why buy the milk, when you can get the cow for free?’ If you are an advocate for moving in with your partner prior to marriage, “how long should a couple date before moving in together”?

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Is Spirituality Important When Choosing A Mate?

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I realize that some do not consider one’s spirituality when dating.   If you are planning on having a future with your partner, this is a topic that is worth a discussion. What if you have children? Would you not want to raise your children in agreement as to your position regarding spirituality? ie. whether you follow the principles of the Bible, Koran, Torah, etc.  Is spirituality important to you? Why or why not?